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Why is Single and Looking a better dating website

  • because it points out what you might not like about someone
  • because it writes your personality description for you, it writes your profile for you
  • because it verifies each member
  • because it respects your privacy and your requests
  • Single-and-Looking makes you aware of what you might not like in a relationship

    When people meet someone new, they try to make a better impression. And when they are attracted to someone, enthusiasm and hormones makes them ignore certain details. But after the initial attraction fades away, those details become more and more noticeble and some couples end up in divorce.
    Choosing the right life partner makes the difference between appreciating your partner or accepting them, in other words a happy life or stressful life. That is why Single-and-Looking describes your relationship with a potential partner before you even get to know that person. We can do that because we compare your personality with the personality of the other member. And if there is a major difference, we describe what you might not like about that person in the future.

    Details make the difference when looking for a lasting relationship

    Generally, when you like someone, the decision is based on physical attraction, and what you want right now. Most people however do not know themselves very well; What they want is not always what they really need, so their personal description is subjective. This dating website tells you subtle things about your personality and the personality of other members, which influence compatibility.

    All profiles are verified and authentic

    All profiles on Single-and-looking.com are required to have a picture. After 30 days, any account that does not have a photo is being deleted. Only those members who have a photo can contact other other members.
    Some people are attractive, but not photogenic, therefore a photo will not do them justice. Therefore, members are encouraged to have a recorded online video conversation where they present themselves. That recorded video becomes part of their profile. On top of that, we encourage you to have a video conversation with every member you wish to get to know better, before you decide to meet.

    You decide who sees your profile

    If you are looking for someone from specific states or countries or continents and wish to be seen only by members from those specific areas, you may hide your profile from everyone else. Also, if you do not smoke and prefer a partner who also does not smoke, those members who smoke will never see your profile.
    When searching, you can focus on specific qualities, such as age, religion, education, location and even language which can be extremely valuable if you are single in a foreign country. When you find someone you like, you can read about your partner and about your future relationship even before you contact them.

    How matchmaking works

    Single-and-Looking.com is an online dating community exclusively made for singles who are interested in finding a compatible match. When creating a profile, the matchmaking system takes into consideration 10 components that influence our personality. Compatibility, however, is focused on what really matter in a relationship, such as the social, emotional, physical and intellectual component.
    Single-and-Looking.com is focused on matchmaking you with someone compatible with you. We understand how different people can be, therefore this matchmaking system seeks to recognise individual characteristics. For that reason, the Relationship Questionnaire is designed to establish your needs, desires, personality, beliefs and overall outlook on life, as well as your individual views on important life issues like love, money and family. And because you need as many information as possible in order to make a decision, we will show you your most compatible matches, you will be able to see your score with all members, plus a description of how your relationship might evolve.

    Compatibility factors that influence the matchmaking process

  • Emotional compatibility
  • Two people are emotionally compatible when they have similar instincts and they express their emotions in a familiar way. When you are emotionally compatible with someone, you are not surprised by their reactions and you feel comfortable with that person.
  • Mental compatibility
  • When two people are mentally compatible they are able to communicate and understand each other. When you are mentally compatible with someone, you enjoy the communication with the other person because both your minds process information the same way. Therefore you are both intelligent enough to understand each other.
  • Energetic compatibility
  • When you are energetically compatible with someone, you are capable to keep up with that person and never feel drained of energy when you interact with them.
  • Life values
  • When your values are compatible with someone else`s values, you want similar things from life and have similar plans.

    Unique online dating community

    Single-and-Looking.com offers all members a personality description based on a part of the Relationship Questionnaire. So far, members reported 94.3% positive feedback.
  • Ladies, you are in high demand. 72.9% of our members are men seeking women!
  • Why this matchmaking website

  • Membership of Single-and-Looking is secure and anonymous. You decide if and when you reveal your real identity to anyone.
  • For added privacy, only other members of this Website are able to see your profile and photo.
  • Here you can meet people like you, who are looking for someone on their wavelength for a lasting relationship.
  • Why a regular online dating website is not enough

  • Most of us are not professional writers, which is why dating ads can only give you a glimpse of who that person really is.
  • Most people do not know how to describe themselves; they are not aware of their priorities, but they can recognize themselves in the personality description offered by Single-and-Looking.com